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I love you, my little baby

June 14th, 2009 at 04:34 am

I am so sorry, my little baby. I don't know what happened, if I did something wrong or not. I am sorry you aren't going to be able to grow and meet your mommy and daddy and feel our love for you. I pray that you have already met God today and let him hold you until I can see you and hold you myself.

21 Responses to “I love you, my little baby”

  1. Thrifty Ray Says:
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    I am so sorry. I will keep you in my prayers.

  2. debtfreeme Says:
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    I am so sorry.

  3. shiela Says:
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    I'm so sorry.

  4. Apprentice Bliss Hunter Says:
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    My condolences.... Take care of yourself.

  5. Ima saver Says:
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    I am also , so sorry!

  6. gamecock43 Says:
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    I am sorry this happened. I have heard this is somewhat common so I don't think it is something you could have prevented.

  7. Thrifty Ray Says:
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    I hope deep down, you know that you didnt do anything wrong. I am also a mom who lost a child before I met him/her...and it was so painful. Time will help heal your heart. In the meantime, take care of yourself. And forgive people who say clumsy things(as often happens after losing a baby). They mean well, but just dont understand. Hugs to you.

  8. creditcardfree Says:
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    ((hugs)) Take care of you!

  9. cptacek Says:
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    Thank you, everybody, for your kind words. I am still a little shocked by all of this. We went to Mass this morning, and afterwords, our priest said a prayer over DH and I, with my parents, brother, sister and aunt and uncle all around. That has helped settle my grief a little, but I am still listless and numb. It helps to know people are thinking of us in our grief.

    Thrifty Ray, thank you, especially for your second post. People try to say the right thing to comfort you, but they just don't know, unless they have gone through it too.

  10. Phenomenal Woman Says:
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    The plan may have not turned out the way we wanted but babies are guaranteed to be with God when they leave us so soon.

    I myself misscarried last month at 7 weeks. I even got to see the blinking heartbeat of my baby on the screen three times before he/she went home.

    Even though it was a short time, it was quite an experince feeling the warm fuzzy sunshine while it lasted. I still catch myself missing my baby. My heart goes out to you.

  11. frugaltexan75 Says:
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    I am so sorry for your loss.

  12. momcents Says:
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    I am so sorry for your loss. The most helpful thing that I was told was it doesn't matter if your child was born onto this Earth or into Heaven, it is your child and you've had the privilege of being the baby's mother.

    My child talk about the baby in between 2 and 3 and how they have an angel in Heaven.

    Peace be with you.

  13. dmontngrey Says:
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    I'm very sorry for your loss. Take care of yourself and allow yourself the time you need to grieve.

  14. Blue Eyes Says:
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    So sorry to hear about your loss. Take care.

  15. koppur Says:
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    I'm so sorry for your loss. I'll keep you, your DH, and your whole family in my thoughts.

  16. miclason Says:
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    ((hugs))

  17. Broken Arrow Says:
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    I am very sorry for your loss.

  18. whitestripe Says:
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    i am so sorry. df's sister lost a baby at 12 weeks last year, it was very hard for her. surround yourself with those you love and take the time to grieve.

  19. boomeyers Says:
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    Praying for you and DH! Frown

  20. RedThunderbird Says:
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    with tears in my eyes , i say i am very sorry for your loss , in my prayers .

  21. LAL Says:
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    I am sorry for your loss.

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